What is she thinking...
In order to truly connect to another or to understand their point of view - we have to be willing to see the situation from their perspective. Mentalization- 'mind-mindedness', is a term that describes our ability to see ourselves as others see us, and to see others as they see themselves (J. Homles). Try it next time you find yourself perplexed by someone's actions toward you or words. Imagine being them and seeing you through their eyes.